Sex?

[Sakura]

I thought this topic would make for good discussion. xP

Have you ever had sex? What are you views on sex, like sex before marriage, not before you're 18 and so on. :P

[Kadaj]

Yes, I have done the sex. :cunning:

Before marriage I don't think matters. You can be in love with someone without being married lolz. As for age, probably 15/16+

[Enedok]

Nah, not yet, and I'm not specifically trying to get it atm.

Its not important what status you have (before/after marriage, with/without relationship) as long as you know you or your partner wont regret it. And not cheating! Above that and the law anything goes.

[[teehee]

Yes, I have. D:

I don't think marriage really matters. Not to me anyway. I do think that the person you do it with needs to be someone you really love though, not just a random bang.

[Cathryn]

Unrfortunatly im a big whore. :rolleyes:
Yes, i kinda regret it now seing as it had no meaning, but oh well, im not going to be all depressed about it.

As for sex before marriage, i've never really taken it into account so i can't really say. ;)

[Rekhyt]

Unrfortunatly im a big whore.

Hi i dont think we've met :perv:.

Seriously though I dont see anything wrong with sex before marriage. However seeing that I'm 15 and go to an all boys school I am yet to have had sex. :(

[Ringlets]

Thank god you didnt take the chadwick approach. i dont dislike those that dont like sex before marriage, but those who never shut up about how they're going to be celebate till they're 60 annoy the hell out of me.

[Enedok]

However seeing that I'm 15 and go to an all boys school I am yet to have had sex. :(

Shees, sad face. It would have been a bit more unusual if you had been 15 and no longer virgin. Dont stress yourself. And when you are 17 and "everyone" acts like they are pro veterans they are lying.

And when I'm posting im just going to say I will never have a girl who smokes. I cant see myself having a good time (in or outside bed) when it smells.

[Devious]

I'm 13. 'nuff said. :lol:

[Misschoco]

I'm 13. 'nuff said. :lol:
'nuff said here too..im 14;)

[Askyria]

Lol, I'm 13 too, but I don't believe in sex before marriage, for myself, at least. Mainly because I don't want to feel 'used' and 'secondhand' if it turns out it wasn't the right person.

[Lifrasthir]

I'm 14.....and shall wait until I'm married. Yes that's me.

[[teehee]

Lol, I'm 13 too, but I don't believe in sex before marriage, for myself, at least. Mainly because I don't want to feel 'used' and 'secondhand' if it turns out it wasn't the right person.
Just because you have sex before marriage it doesn't mean you're going to be used. :blink: Also being married doesn't secure the perfect relationship either...

[Aimen]

I am a virgin flower :cunning:

[Rikku]

Just because you have sex before marriage it doesn't mean you're going to be used. :blink: Also being married doesn't secure the perfect relationship either...

Agreed.

I'm 13, so, no. =P I have no problem with sex before marriage as long as it's meaningful and fully consentual. And as long it doesn't count as statutory rape. Yeah.

[Lucrecia]

:lol: I'm 12, so you get the point.

[Enedok]

I feel like the oldest virgin here -_-' Can someone cheer me up by saying they are even older then me.

[Misschoco]

I feel like the oldest virgin here -_-'
....and theres no problem in that :P

[Lifrasthir]

I feel like the oldest virgin here -_-' Can someone cheer me up by saying they are even older then me.

Yeah, I agree with Miss Choco. I have a 24 year old cousin who's a virgin and still is...as far as I know...he woulda told me anyways...Don't feel bad Enedok. ^_^ *pats head*

[Enedok]

Thank you Tempus, Im grateful for it. :P

[Lifrasthir]

Yup. Just know that no matter how alone you think you are...there are lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of people out in the world and lots are like you in this situation.

[Enedok]

Yeah, I know. I just don't want to be 30 in my mothers basement. Anyway, thats one of the reasons i decided to take the military. So I had some place to start living when i leave my family. Just one more year until sir yes sir begins. :O

Wonder if I have any time to play FFXIII when it comes out. (What am I doing here?)

[Lifrasthir]

I'm sure you'll find someone before you're 30...And the military sounds like a good thing to do. I've got lots of friends from Youth Group that joined the military.

I'm sure you'll find sometime to play XIII. :nod:

[Enedok]

Thank you. :P (Your like my personal psychiatrist :P)

[Lifrasthir]

Thank you. :P (Your like my personal psychiatrist :P)

Yup. Anytime. (Lol, you'll pay me for this right? :P)

[Xelien_5.0]

Made out, yes. Sex, no. im still geting over the fact that my sister got impregnated at 17. Now *abracadabra* im an aunt. Its not taht i find sex wrong at a young age(hell, im probably going to have sex somtime in during high school) i just think my sister was an idiot(Condoms, know when to use them) and i dont even want to think about sex

[Enedok]

Oh, I thought it was a bit early when my 21 years old sister is pregnant. She is ready for it and wanted it. (She is already the head of a kinder garden and wanted one.)

Whenever you are getting a child you have to let go of lot of stuff. (Sleep, going out, school) You just cant leave a child for itself. All good if she is happy with it but I could never see myself in the fathers role anytime soon. Maybe from 25-30 but not below 20.

[Allen Walker]

I think sex should come after marriage because not only is it wrong (im religious), but you need child care and... eh...im not good at this stuff...

[Cathryn]

Oh, I thought it was a bit early when my 21 years old sister is pregnant. She is ready for it and wanted it. (She is already the head of a kinder garden and wanted one.)

Whenever you are getting a child you have to let go of lot of stuff. (Sleep, going out, school) You just cant leave a child for itself. All good if she is happy with it but I could never see myself in the fathers role anytime soon. Maybe from 25-30 but not below 20.

You might *GASPINATE* at me saying this, but one of my friends actually has a child.
She is 15 and gave birth at the beginning of May.
Unfortunatly its one of those situations where the physical care of protection wasn't an issue and it resulted in.......

BABY JENSON!

But she wasn't given the option of Abortion as it was over the 24 week period until she actually found out she was pregnant.
I would never consider having a child so you thats its kinda scary.
(I hate children anyway *STAB!!?!*)

But basically it will ruin the chance of PROPER GCSE's.

[Rikku]

I think sex should come after marriage because not only is it wrong (im religious), but you need child care and... eh...im not good at this stuff...

I disagree. I don't know how it's wrong from an unreligious point of view unless you blatantly explain it to me without bringing God in; also, if protection is used correctly, it won't result in pregnancy (usually). If you do get pregnant, abortion and adoption are always options. If you have to have the baby... then child care does become an issue.

[[teehee]

Yeah, thats what id like to know too. Same with homosexuality. Without the mention of God, whats so wrong about it?

[XxFeaRLeSsxX]

You might *GASPINATE* at me saying this, but one of my friends actually has a child.
She is 15 and gave birth at the beginning of May.
Unfortunatly its one of those situations where the physical care of protection wasn't an issue and it resulted in.......

BABY JENSON!

But she wasn't given the option of Abortion as it was over the 24 week period until she actually found out she was pregnant.
I would never consider having a child so you thats its kinda scary.
(I hate children anyway *STAB!!?!*)

But basically it will ruin the chance of PROPER GCSE's.

Kids are okay, just as long as they aren't mine :blink: But I think I'm like a baby magnet, cause any toddler I pass by in a store would give me this smile and start giggling as if we've known each other FOREVER.

*goosebumps*

[Askyria]

I don't mind kids unless they're snotty little brats. Especially this one that I have to babysit. Ugh.

[XxFeaRLeSsxX]

I don't mind kids unless they're snotty little brats. Especially this one that I have to babysit. Ugh.

lol 3-7 year olds are the WORST

[Ultima Star]

I'm 15 and I haven't and I'm not planning on doing it before I get married, I'll wait

[007vader]

I'm not planning to do it before I'm married.

[Alphonse]

Well not yet but one of this days. Before or after marriage doesenr matter to me. Doing it before marriage ummmmm............ nope. Dont have nothing against it.

[tushimo]

Ooooh Ooooh i think that sex before marriage is fine just along as you brought a trojan! lol...sooo yea (im 13 so no sex lol) o_o

[Lifrasthir]

Ooooh Ooooh i think that sex before marriage is fine just along as you brought a trojan! lol...sooo yea (im 13 so no sex lol) o_o

I'm scared for your girlfriend...:'( (You aren't 13 yet. You've still got half a month.)

[lathandien]

eh...im not good at this stuff...

YOU GOT THAT RIGHT HAHAHA (sorry)
anyway.. im 13, gonna be 14 in 3 months though.. which makes going back to school a bit easier on me, cause i have that birthday comin and all..

uh.. since i havent had sex, and i am not religious, i guess you could say it would be okay to have sex before your married. nothing's wrong with it, because with the society we live in now, you could be divorced within 10 years. if you picked your lucky girl/guy then you MAY go on to living a happy life together. so basically.. ya sex before, after, and inbetween marriage is fine (inbetween meaning fiance)